|Eric Robins, MD|
Co-author of Your Hands Can Heal you.
|Bruce Lipton, PhD|
Author of The Biology of Belief.
|Nathaniel Brandon, PhD|
author of The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem
"The techniques of EP have provided me with invaluable tools for working with trauma. No therapist can afford to remain ignorant of this new and exciting field."
|Bessel Van der Kolk|
Professor of Psychiatry, Boston University School of Medicine
"EP techniques and procedures can bring about remarkably rapid changes in the way people feel."
|Deepak Chopra, MD|
|"EFT offers great healing benefits." |
|Jack Canfield |
"The most powerful new transformational technology to come along in years."
|Candace Pert, PhD|
Author of Molecules of Emotion.
|Norm Shealy, MD|
Author of Soul Medicine.
|Wayne Dyer |
"This really works... I've had great results with tapping in my own life."
Co-Author of The Promise of Energy Psychology.
Author of The Unmistakable Touch of Grace..
Using EFT for Relationships
EFTs ability to transform personal relationships is remarkable. Whether your love or marriage relationship is unsatisfying, or whether you're dealing with a difficult family or business relationship, EFT can help. Below you'll find the stories of dozens of people who've tried EFT for relationships, and seen profound improvements.
We also warmly invite you to the ultimate EFT and relationship skills online course, Tapping Deep Intimacy. This twelve-week online coaching program combines the best of EFT, neuroscience, and Energy Medicine to produce deep intimacy and lasting change. Watch the newsletter for the start of the next group.
When we're upset by what another person does or says, we usually focus on getting them to change. Yet if you've ever tried to change someone else's behavior, you'll remember that the effort is rarely successful! It often just compounds the problem.
EFT has you focus, first and foremost, on your own reactions. Perhaps you simmer with silent resentment when certain people speak. Perhaps you explode with loud anger when certain topics are mentioned. The reason you're triggered is that the present situation reminds you of an early childhood experience. While the other person is the detonator, the dynamite is inside of you. EFT can help defuse the charge within. That gives you the gift of emotional freedom. Though other people might not change, they can no longer keep you in emotional bondage to your bad feelings.
The other benefit of EFT is that relationships are systems. Each person in the relationship is part of the system. Families embody family systems; organizations have organizational cultures. These are energy structures in which people relate. When one person gains emotional freedom, having defused their inner triggers, it changes the energy pattern of the whole system. So just changing yourself often produces change in others, even though you're not seeking to change them.
Take a look at the many inspiring stories below, and follow in the footsteps of those in the EFT community who've found that difficult relationships can become wonderful relationships with EFT! If you don't find what you need there, please post your question on our Families discussion group, take an EFT workshop, or contact one of our certified EFT practitioners.
Dawson Church, PhD
Best-selling Author of the Award-Winning Book The Genie in Your Genes.
"I received an EFT session from Dr Church to address a family dynamics issue which has plagued me for 30 years. Dr Church spent a lot of time with me, uncovering various layers of issues that came up. At the time it felt very powerful, but the power of it all became especially apparent to me in the months after. Since then, the dynamic has resolved for me in a profound manner. I am, at last, at peace, I am grateful to Dr Church, and to EFT."
-Sincerely, Queenie Smith, MD
Relationships Case Histories
- EFT is instrumental in bringing a couple back together
- Healing Past Relationships Heals Present Ones
- Relationships, EFT, and Spirituality
- Present-Day Annoyances May Be Old Patterns Crying Out for Healing
- Healing Old Family Relationship Issues Heals Arthritis Pain
- Criticism and Blame Block Love Relationships
- Attracting the Right Person With an Open Heart
- EFT and Sex
- Systematic Use of Movie Technique Reveals and Heals New Relationship Aspects
- Divorce Recovery
- What Would Love Do Here?
- Heal Your Heart and Trust Again
- Tapping Away Thoughts that Block Better Relationships
- Divorce Plan Linked to Childhood Event
- Having an Orgasm With Your Partner
- Ranting and Tapping Away Scars of Divorce
- Obsession with Affairs Ends After EFT
- Core Issues and the "Sins of Eve"